Sometimes, climbing out of a money rut starts with a pep talk — to yourself.
"I like affirmations and speaking out loud," said Giovanna Gonzalez, a financial educator and author of "Cultura & Cash." Her favorite affirmations are statements like, "I am not a reflection of my money mistakes," "I can improve my financial situation," and "My finances are within my control."
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